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  • 4 Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself for Personal Growth

    Are you asking yourself the right questions? Here are four powerful questions that can help you understand yourself, find your purpose, stay curious, and prioritize your well-being.

    Who am I?

    Why? To understand what makes you unique and to discover what truly matters to you. Your life experiences shape you into more than just a one-dimensional person. You may be an athlete, a parent, a spouse, a sibling, an energetic individual, or a calm and reflective one. So, who are you?

    What is my purpose?

    Why? To uncover what motivates you to wake up each morning and positively impact the lives around you. Your purpose may evolve over time. As we age, we grow and take on different roles. Someone raising a young family may see their purpose as nurturing incredible human beings. How they fulfill that purpose when their child is two versus fifteen will differ, but the core purpose remains. Beyond that, they might also be a spouse, an employee, or a friend. We all have multiple purposes in life.

    Was I curious?

    Why? To embrace the vast amount of unexplored knowledge the world has to offer. Curiosity allows you to discover what you don’t know or deepen your expertise in what you do. Keeping an open mind toward others and their opinions is crucial. Ask yourself: Why do you believe you’re right and someone else is wrong? Could you both be right? Understanding different perspectives can lead to growth.

    Am I taking care of myself?

    Why? To stay present and prioritize your well-being—physically, mentally, and spiritually. All three are essential to knowing yourself. You have only one body and one mind; treat them as a temple. A strong, well-nurtured body and mind will help you achieve more than one that is neglected. Since you can’t trade them in, take care of them.

    Take care.

  • Happiness Isn’t What You Think: A Simpler Path to Fulfillment

    Happiness Isn’t What You Think: A Simpler Path to Fulfillment

    Everyone has their own definition of happiness. While we may share similarities, our perspectives differ because of our unique upbringings and life experiences. Today, social media further shapes—and often distorts—what happiness looks like, depending on what we consume.

    What Does It Mean to Be Happy?

    There are fundamental truths we must embrace to experience happiness.

    It begins with learning to live with what we have and cultivating simple pleasures. Happiness is found in what is already within reach:

    • Someone holding the door open
    • A stranger buying you a coffee
    • A genuine compliment

    These small moments matter more than we think.

    Acts of kindness are not just gestures we receive—they are powerful when we give them. When we create space for happiness, even the simplest act of kindness can shift our entire state of mind.

    The Illusion of External Happiness

    We often believe happiness comes from big, expensive things—a vacation, a new car, or jewelry. While these may bring temporary joy, they can also mask deeper emotions like sadness, anger, or disappointment.

    Instead of facing those feelings, we sometimes cover them with quick, external fixes. We chase purchases that make us feel important or validated, but only for a moment.

    True happiness cannot be built on avoidance.

    As Dr. Becky Kennedy explains, the more we learn to regulate difficult emotions—frustration, disappointment, envy, and sadness—the more space we create for happiness. These emotions are signals, not obstacles. Ignoring them only delays growth.

    Happiness emerges when we understand ourselves fully—the good and the bad. Self-awareness and resilience are essential to enjoying life.

    Happiness and Purpose

    Happiness is deeply connected to purpose.

    When you know your purpose—whether it’s being a parent, leading a team, helping others, or being a great neighbour—you gain direction. You know what matters. You understand what to prioritize and when to say no.

    Progress toward your purpose brings fulfillment, and fulfillment fuels happiness.

    Without purpose, it’s easy to feel lost. Life becomes overwhelming without a clear focus. You may begin to question everything and feel like the world is working against you.

    If you feel this way, start by getting to know yourself. What brings you joy? That joy is often a signal pointing toward your purpose.

    A Simpler Path to Happiness

    Enjoy what is in front of you.

    Don’t let social media define happiness for you.
    Don’t overlook the power of small moments.
    Don’t ignore what you feel.

    Practice kindness.
    Understand yourself.
    Pursue your purpose.

    Progress in that direction leads to fulfillment—and fulfillment leads to lasting happiness.

    Take care.